It’s been a while since I sat down to write, but it has been an interesting three weeks. I have been overwhelmed with work and I have not had much time for dating. I think that I purposely threw myself into work because I didn’t want to have the time to accept dates or setups from well meaning friends. How pathetic do they think I am? Apparently very because a day does not go by that a friend will call and tell me that she knows this great guy who would be perfect for me. ‘Oh No’ I sigh and listen as she tells me how great this guy is. If he is so great why is he still single? They just laugh at me and tell me to come by on Sunday. Well guess what, I’m working on sunday, to bad, so sad, I just can’t make it. Being divorced is good and bad, good because I got rid of that person I was yoked to, and bad because now my friends feel sorry for me. I love them all and I know they are well meaning, but sometimes you just have to take a break and get your bearings. Besides, I don’t want to date another guy who cleans his teeth at the dinner table with a knife, nor do I want to bored to death when the guy goes on and on about what a great catch he is. I will date, but for now I just want to breathe. I’m going to a friends cook out on monday, and I plan to just relax and enjoy myself….Have a great labor day.